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I love to cook. It all started back in Chattanooga. My mom
would tell you that growing up I absolutely had no interest in helping her
cook. My mom made great things--from her cream tacos to her spaghetti sauce to
her homemade bbq sauce. I loved to eat
them all, but I had no interest in helping her prepare them. Even with the wide
variety of stuff she made, I found no real creativity to it. It was just
putting things in a dish, and doing something that was a means to an end.
I lived in Chattanooga when I met Tex. Tex and Kim were true southern people. They may not have been from the south, but they
definitely practiced southern hospitality, and would welcome you right into
their home. I remember the day Tex called me. Kim was out of town, and he just
wanted someone to hang with. I was on my internship and he knew I was poor. I
was greeted at the door with his freshly brewed IPA. I really had no clue what
this was, but soon fell in love with its hoppy flavor. He took me into the
kitchen where he was marinating some wings. But these were not just wings in a
generic hot sauce; they were wings with garlic, sesame seed sauce, beer, and so
much more. I remember asking what was in the marinade; he said he wasn’t even
sure. I asked, “How can you not know what is in the marinade?” He answered,
“Will, cooking is just getting to know the ingredients and how to blend them.”
I was baffled. Then he proceeded to head over and make some homemade bleu
cheese. I watched with amazement, and soon I had fallen in love with cooking.
Now it had become something creative, and I was interested!
When I cook I am transported into a different
world. It is often my way to just free up my mind or relax for the time being.
I begin to focus on making the best possible thing I can, and encourage my
family to try different things. The problem is, sometimes I take on too much,
or have a challenge sharing the kitchen. Recently, when some friends were in
town, they mentioned that maybe next year we should do something different from
having the meal at my house, because they missed spending time with me while I
was cooking. That made me realize I can be a kitchen hog.
My boys often push chairs up to the counter to
help me cook. This is one of my most challenging moments. I am doing something
I love to do that allows me to chill out, and they are coming into my territory
wanting to help. I mean, come on, it’s challenging to give the almost two and
four year old little persons a job!
For years the church put an age limit on who
could help in the church. I am not so sure they intentionally thought teenagers
were not good helpers at ushering, reading or other jobs. I just think we get
territorial. We try and hold onto the service areas we love. Plus, it takes so
much more energy to train someone else to do what we could do ourselves. God
uniquely places people who have different gifts in a church so they can
function together to love and care for the people of Christ in the best way
possible. The problem is that sometimes our sinful, selfish sides intrude, and
we want to do our own thing, or we don’t see how the church could use our gifts
in a certain area.
VBS will soon
be upon us. We will have about one hundred children on our campus. That means
we could impact at least two hundred families next week. Every child on our
campus will be connected to at least two families. What could you do to help Mt. Calvary bless
more families? If you are in the blog world, maybe you could send a child here.
If you are already a member of Mt. Calvary how can you help? We have a couple
who just signed up to be greeters on Monday and Tuesday.
The reason I love cooking is that when
different ingredients are mixed together, they become an awesome dish. One dish
I made lately was fresh green beans, with cashews, and bleu cheese. I have to
admit the first time I ever saw that dish I was skeptical, but it is delicious!
God uses unique personalities and creativity to make one wonderful
congregation. I have seen many come to faith when they served Jesus with their
unique gifts and saw how God works.
God has blessed you uniquely. What are your
special gifts? Warm personality, detail
oriented, internet designer, child caregiver, usher ;)
This week we talk about the Body of Christ
being one. The amazing thing about Jesus is that He takes the most strained
relationships and heals us through Forgiveness and Love. I will share one of
those stories this weekend. He has unique plans for you and can bless so many
through your gifts. The question is what will you do?
1 comment:
It makes me happy knowing that I came to your office as you in the middle of writing this and I told how I was having a conversation with someone about you in which I said that you were someone who was able to give up control to give others the opportunity to learn. If I would have only known that this blog is what I was interrupting. ;) You make it look easy, though it's a good reminder that even those of us who make things look easy still have struggles with it. Even Jesus was tempted.
But that's something that I think not only our educational system and even the church has failed us on: enabling and encouraging us to use and grow in our individual gifts. That reminds me what Screwtape said in one of his final chapters: one tool the tempters use is to get us to want everyone to be "equal," becuase while we know it starts with noble intentions, it quickly turns into no one being able to use their gifts and talents because they would then be different and/or make others feel bad about themselves. We should be living in a world that encourages uniqueness and lets people use the gifts they are given by God. It would be a much more colorful, happier place.
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